Being a "Single Dad"

Good day Clan and friends as well,it's around 10 am today and finalizing this article.I may share this to you an article being a single dad.I am not a single dad because I am still single and haven't a kid yet.Come on any single dad here?Will you out for a party tonight?Dating is actually a hunt for being a single dad.I had my friend before who is a single dad working in a government institution.It is actually difficult to handle as he said to raised a kid alone.Practically speaking,dude,where is your mother?Trust you mother as she trust you.Dating?Okay,I will start doing an elaboration.

Dating on its own is just hard enough even for singles… now imagine how hard it must be for single dads raising kids alone. Since there is so much support and advice for single mothers, I figures it was time to include the singles dads since men too get joint/sole custody or widowed.

One thing that usually makes it difficult for a single father is that most women usually expect the men they are dating to place them at the top of their priority lists… even before work and family. If this is quite hard for a single guy to keep up with, how is a full time single dad expected to date when the kids have to come first? Check out this one for example: He has got so much in his hands… should drinking beer come before feeding the baby and dressing himself up? Now add a woman to that equation

Well here is the first rule of dating for single dads… BE SELECTIVE. Would you rather go through dozens of bad relationships princesses that want undivided attention or wait around for a woman who appreciates and understands the primacy of your role as a father? Much as most women like coming first, there are those realistic ones who not only accept that being a Dad comes first, but also find it VEEEERY SEXY

So where are these women? I have nothing against women who go to bars and clubs, but if that is your hunting ground, then expect the younger and less mature women. Shift your gear to coffee shops and book clubs. Don’t be afraid to date single mothers… you both share dedication to family and share many experiences.

And don’t forget the all times sakes favorite… online dating sites. Once you find the right woman online, introduce her to the kids. Do this delicately and make sure the kids realize that your lady can never replace their mother. Hope that helps guys.

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Researching "Sutacio Clan Family Roots" Leading to Grand Reunion

Good day clan.Since when this site was created last December of 2010,I laid some goals,expectations and objectives and hopefully we can meet all of these.I personally had a "eureka!" in my mind when I visited my lolo's house at Mandurriao when my uncle ronie suggested that it's better to trace our roots and finally setting up a so called "Family Tree".I knew that Sutacio Clan is really a big clan.Is it possible?Of coarse yes.hmmm..what do you think?As we all know that our beloved place "Sta.Barbara" is our home as where our ancestors came from.In any walks of life,and others were already living abroad for good,we should not forget our roots as a term I should coined as "Angkan".My colleagues will going to set up a questionnaire about the possible tracing of our clan.This will be distributed as soon as this survey questionnaire is already available and finalized.We come to call it "SUTACIO CLAN QUESTIONNAIRES".

Our Official Fan Page in Facebook will be our mode of bulletin to news and quick related announcements.
Okay,while setting up this plan I need some few people to assist me for the following fields:

Important: All positions below are non compensated and we do not offer jobs.Voluntarily and willingness are in this objectives to those who are just willing.Foods and allowance are given as long as   enough funds available.Qualifications are as follows:

1.Must be a member of Sutacio Clan,a self proud Sutacio
2.Must be living in Iloilo and have courage to help.
3.Must be 17 years of age.
4.For the account staff,she/he should be trusted and any finance background would be a plus.

>Survey Assistant
>Encoder
>Researchers
>Fundraising Officers
>Account Clan Staff

Please let us know if there is any suggestions would you like share and we are happy to give you a response.
 Click the contact button below to send your comments,suggestions,and questions regarding this plan.

HOW TO STAY CLOSE WITH FAMILY WHEN YOU LIVE APART?

Staying close with family members especially when they move across the country can be difficult thing to do.Family is family right,and when they'r close you can definitely take them for granted.Before you know it,someone has a new job,and they'r moving across the province,across the country or worse halfway across the world.Here are some basic ideas to all of my clan on how to stay close with family when you live apart:whether really far,or just a few hours away.



Number 1: Calling each other can make a difference

                    Whether you are living a few hours from each other or across the world from one another you can always bet that they and you will have access to a telephone or celphone.What better way to keep in touch with one another than by talking with each other.It really depends on family member personalities on how much you talk with each other,some will talk daily,and yet others are satisfied with a phone call a month to really catch up on things.Phone calls are an easy and gateway to keep in touch because you can actually hear someone else talking to you.

Number 2: Try some handwriting

                    Although it may seem a bit old fashioned, writing a handwritten or even computer written letter is another way to keep in touch with family members that live far apart. You can write as often as you want. Some keep in touch by sending monthly letters with pictures, and others simple send letters once a year such a Christmas time or some other important holiday. Letter writing has become almost a lost form of communication with so much new technology available to people around the world but it is still yet another way to keep in touch.

Number 3: Technology

                  As stated before there is so much available to people world wide with the use of technology. There are many ways to communicate and keep in touch with family members using the internet today whether they live a short or far distance from you. The computer and internet have made it possible to communicate as if there are no time changes and like you were sitting right beside them. Here are a few of the ways you can use the internet to communicate with family members:
1. Email- You can use the internet to send emails back and forth between family members to help keep you informed on immediate and extended family members. Emails are the same as sending letters except you don't have to buy a stamp and they are received much quicker than a handwritten letter would be.
2. Instant Messenger- Instant messenger has also become part of a world wide way to communicate with others. It is much like talking on the phone except you are sending messages instantly via the computer to one another. Instant messenger has also come up with a way to communicate over the internet using your computer via a web cam. It's exactly like talking on the phone but you can see and hear the person you are talking to.3. Blogging- Blogging is another way to keep family members in formed of what's going on in your life. You can download pictures of your family and write journal entries about the pictures. It is much like a digital scrapbook that people can view to keep informed and communicate.
4. Networking- Large networks like MySpace and Facebook have recently become a popular way to keep in touch and find family members and friends. You can send emails and talk instantly with some of your family members, upload pictures, and let people know how you are doing that way.
These are a few ideas on how to stay close with family when you live apart from one another. Technology is becoming an increasingly popular way to stay in touch with others and stay as close as you can without actually being close to one another.

The above well-said tips are just some of the wisest and easiest way to stay close with our family.You can have your own way too you can think that suits your lifestyle,time and reasons.

My dearest clan our family is the biggest treasure that we had.Let us forget whatever dooper misunderstanding we have been into

Amber Davis

Mayad gid nga adlaw.Hope you are all okay guys.I have been  trying to make myself busy.That is supah unique answer.Lol.Got a new job,while doing this blog a part time.We would like to thank all Sutacio Clan who spent their time to attend lolo's birthday.Even though I was not able to run for his birthday at the last hour.Well,It's seems that I have to share to you a girl,take note" A girl".hehe.hmm..I know what you are thinking guys.Amber is a filipino-american singer managed and own by her actually together with Marcus Jr.-her husband. She is good hearted woman and I believe that she was so blessed as she really a humble and down to earth person.I met her once when I was in manila @ boardwalk singing her very own songs in her album. She can sing actually aside of having a pretty face  and It was like I am dropping my jaw.She is sexy and gorgeous when I made a handshake with her.